Why Did You come back to Work at First again?
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Welcome back? Really?
You might think there are several reasons, but that wouldn’t satisfy the curiosity of those who thrive on juicy gossip.
The truth is much more complex and nuanced.
Depending on the type of friendship or collegial relationship we had before, everyone asks this question with a different tone of voice and a different facial expression. My “close” friends and colleagues greeted me with a smile. In their voices, I didn’t detect any unwanted thoughts or judgment. Some people, who weren’t part of this close circle, almost greeted me with a smirk and a mocking smile. It was clear they thought, “I knew it wouldn’t work out,” and they grinned at me. Naturally, there were people with whom I had “only” a professional relationship, who simply wanted to know what was going on. This is a completely normal reaction. There are a few older colleagues who haven’t even said “Hi” in the past 15 years. Even now, they were completely indifferent to my return, for the third time in a row.
Is it worth explaining the reasons behind my return? Perhaps it’s better to start with why I left First two years ago. The reason is extremely simple: MONEY. Everyone is looking for a way to earn a bit more or to find better working conditions. Those who say they aren’t are either lying, or they are so disillusioned with their job that they are not interested in anything anymore.
I saw an advert offering £600-800 a week as a driving instructor.
I had a teaching diploma from Hungary, I knew how to drive, and I knew the rules well enough, so I thought, why not give it a try?
I’ll write about how this turned out in a subsequent post. I resigned from First two years ago. After successfully completing all the exams, I handed in my resignation.
The new job was great, and I enjoyed every minute. However, if I wanted to earn money, I had to work more than before because of the high franchise fees, insurance, and other expenses. A year later, when I had to pay taxes, it turned out that I was only earning a little more than before. At that point, I didn’t enjoy the job as much, but I kept at it.
Hospital
As a new driving instructor, you have to take the ADI Standards Check. I was diagnosed with appendicitis and was out for three days. After a week, I developed an internal infection which put me out of action for another two weeks. After a week of bed rest, I had a relapse and spent another two weeks in bed. After that, I was discharged for home care with a plastic plug in my stomach. It took about ten days before I could walk properly again. Unfortunately, my DVSA exam was scheduled during that time. Despite multiple emails and sending medical certificates, they were unwilling to reschedule my test.
Result
The result was that I immediately lost the right to teach students. My students wanted me to continue teaching, but I couldn’t. I returned the paid tuition fees, and the training car, without a scratch. I should note that if I don’t teach, I don’t earn money at all, but every loan and other costs still have to be paid. You can imagine how much of a financial loss it is to be on sick leave at home. This is my story about why I came back.
Brilliant piece of writing!!! Have you considered doing done writing ie short stories?
Thank you so much for the compliment! I truly appreciate your kind words. Writing short stories is indeed something I have considered and am very interested in. There’s something uniquely satisfying about crafting a concise narrative that can deliver a powerful message or evoke strong emotions within a limited word count. Stay tuned, as I may just share some short stories in the future!
Hi istvan,
Yes, very well written and well done to you for trying something different ,I found it a very interesting read ,pertinent to ideas I’ve had myself ,you’ve given a clear and concise insight and a great pity it didnt work out for you and it’s disheartening to think some take pleasure in thinking they “knew”it wouldnt work out. For you
You are obviously an intelligent man and a genuinely nice guy
I’m sure your track record previously driving a bus has held you in good stead to return to something you did very well at and I’m happy to welcome you back as a colleague to a vocation I know you excel at
Keep living the dream !
Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words and support! I really appreciate you taking the time to read my post and share your thoughts. I’m also grateful for your warm welcome back to the bus driving community! It feels good to be back in a role I genuinely enjoy, and your support makes it even better.
Thanks again for being such a great friend and colleague. I’ll keep living the dream, and I hope we get to share more of those dreams together! Thanks for the feedback and I fixed the problem!